Attractions & Stresses

Basic Mormon Doctrine Summary

Chapter: Attraction & Stresses

bulletBiblical background
bulletThe Bible gives us the wisdom of God, which the unbelieving man rejects because it is foolishness to him
bullet1 Corinthians 1:18-25
bullet1 Corinthians 2:14-16
bulletIsaiah 29:14
bulletMan has his own wisdom which God promises to frustrate; it is foolishness to God
bulletChristianity:
bulletEspouses God's wisdom, which is repulsive to natural man
bulletConversion to Christianity is a miracle
bulletIt is only through the power of the Holy Spirit that unbelievers come to God
bulletMormonism (from a Christian perspective):
bulletEspouses man's wisdom, which is attractive to natural man
bulletThere is no miracle involved in embracing Mormonism (because there is no conversion or turning away from trusting self towards absolute trust in God)
bulletA person can come to the LDS church on his own volition
bulletAttractive Teachings
bulletMormonism embraces man's wisdom
bulletThere is no such thing as a free ride
bulletGod helps those who help themselves
bulletIts not justice for God to give salvation away for free
bulletGod would never command us to do something we can't do (be perfect)
bulletThe purpose of the law is for it to be obeyed
bulletMormonism caters to man's natural self-important view of himself
bulletMan is powerful enough to secure his own salvation (His destiny is in his own hands)
bulletMan can have the power and glory of a god
bulletPresents man with the 'ultimate' challenge (working his own salvation)
bulletMan's pursuit of power and financial success is given great honor, rewards, and glory
bulletMormons can take great pride in what they do, or have done
bulletMormonism, through its claim of being the only true church, gives its followers the prestige and arrogant stance of being 'right' and every one else 'wrong'
bulletMormonism brings God within human understanding
bulletHe is just an exalted man
bulletHe walked the same path as anyone else ("He did it; I can do it")
bulletHe is limited by physical laws (not omnipresent, not omnipotent)
bulletMormonism teaches that very few people will spend eternity in hell (Outer Darkness)
bulletRedeeming the dead appeals to man's sense of fair play
bulletPeople find appealing the Mormon teaching of eternal families
bulletParticularly attractive to people who have had family members died prematurely
bulletCan help dead family members through vicarious temple work
bulletWill be reunited with lost loved ones after death
bulletMormonism condones, encourages, and actively engages in the practice of rationalization
bulletRationalizing ones own sinful behavior
bulletUsing conflicting doctrine to rationalize personal beliefs 
bulletRationalizing God
bulletAttractive Practices
bulletMormonism's many rules and regulations removes much of the decision-making from life - everything is black and white
bulletOne can follow rules rather than search one's motives
bulletSafe and varied social activities for individuals, children, and families
bulletMormonism's high profile on family issues attracts many troubled families (they got what I want)
bulletImage of being morally and politically conservative in a seemingly ever less moral and more liberal world
bulletImage of being a caring, good Samaritan community
bulletAn emphasis of personal feelings for discerning truth and as a source of revelation is compatible with society's current attitude of "if it feels right, it must be right"
bulletStresses
bulletUnderneath the surface attractions of Mormonism is a hideous monster that has entrapped, then enslaved, and now torments many Mormons
bulletPerfection obsession
bulletAn unrelenting emphasis to "become perfect", doing all you can do
bulletA 'Savior' who has become a creditor that still demands payment, albeit extending the payment over 'eternities'
bulletUnattainable forgiveness
bulletRepentance that requires "abandoning the sin"
bulletNo forgiveness without total repentance including full payment for each and every sin - with interest!
bulletWorthiness conditions
bulletFormer prophet Spencer Kimball: "All blessings are conditional.  I know of none that are not" ('If' is a very big word in Mormonism)
bulletIf you question, stumble, or don't understand; it is because you are unworthy
bulletThose who consider  leaving the church are threatened with going to Outer Darkness
bulletIt is easy to see your own imperfections, but the outward image of others make them appear to be excelling; increasing your perception of your own unworthiness
bulletGuilt, shame, blame, and accusations of unworthiness are common experiences of many Mormons
bulletOverworked
bulletHome, business and church responsibilities and requirements add up to an excessive load that is never done and is unrelenting
bulletBeing told one cannot refuse a calling because it was 'divinely made' - even though one may not have the interest, talent, time, experience or desire
bulletBeing torn away from your family to fulfill unsought for church responsibilities
bulletDictated childbearing
bulletCommand to have families as large as physically possible, regardless of one's personal desire for children or preference of family size
bulletBeing a child lost in a huge family, with little connection to overwhelmed parents
bulletBeing a child of people who really never wanted children
bulletPressure to marry young and start a family immediately - finding the right life companion takes second place
bulletIntense pressure on women not to work outside of the home, regardless of one's interests, talents, or desires
bulletAbsolute control
bulletA demand of unswerving and absolute support of all church leaders, even when they are wrong or abuse their positions
bulletBeing told untrained bishops, through the gift of discernment "can not fail to see the truth in any heart"; and then have one state falsehoods about your heart
bulletHypocrisy and rationalization
bulletHypocrisy is the inevitable result of any religion that demands perfection from its members
bulletInstead of freely confessing one's sins, one will try to hide them or rationalize them
bulletNo solutions offered
bulletNo place to go to share negative feelings
bulletIt is easy to become convinced that you are the only one with problems or doubts
bulletWhen it comes to spiritual problems, the LDS church is not a very caring community
bulletMormonism offers no true solutions to the stress it creates - It does not offer a Lord who freely forgives sin and removes guilt.

 

  

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